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The Big Rocks, the River, and Why Meaningful Travel Matters More Than Ever This past Thursday, I had the pleasure of participating in not one, but two Cruise Mastery panels focused on helping newer travel advisors become more confident selling cruise travel. Somewhere between the morning session and the evening discussion, I found myself returning to one of the most powerful lessons I discuss with clients planning meaningful travel experiences: Put the Big Rocks in first. It comes from Stephen Covey’s famous “Big Rocks” analogy. Imagine a large glass container sitting empty on a table. First, someone places several large rocks inside.
They ask the audience:
“Is the container full?” Most people say yes. Then they pour in gravel.
The gravel settles into the spaces between the rocks. Again:
“Is it full now?” People nod. Then comes sand.
The sand fills the smaller spaces still remaining. Again:
“Full?” And finally, water is poured in — soaking into all the tiny remaining gaps. The point is simple:
if you put the big rocks in first, everything else can still fit around them. But if you start with the sand, gravel, and water first — the big rocks may never fit at all. And honestly, modern life often feels like we’re drowning in sand and gravel:
emails,
meetings,
notifications,
stress,
deadlines,
endless busyness. Meanwhile, the truly important things keep getting postponed. The Big Rocks are different. They are:
✨ your
health
✨ your relationships
✨ meaningful experiences
✨ personal growth
✨ time with people you love
✨ the memories you want to create while you still can ❤️ COVID reminded many of us how fragile time really is. Borders closed.
Travel stopped.
Health changed.
People were lost.
Years we thought we had simply disappeared. And ever since then, one question has stayed with me — both personally and professionally: “If you knew your health was going to change in a year, what is the one trip you would most regret not taking?” That’s probably your Big Rock. For some people, it’s Antarctica — standing quietly among penguins on the White Continent while glaciers crack in the distance. For others, it’s Africa.
Australia.
The Galápagos.
A Danube river cruise through Europe’s storybook towns.
A meaningful multigenerational
trip with family while everyone is still healthy enough to go. The urgent things will always exist.
There will always be more gravel to pour into the jar. But the Big Rocks? Those become the stories
of our lives. And interestingly, that philosophy is deeply connected to why I specialize in the kinds of travel I do. During the Cruise Mastery panels, one of the things I shared with newer advisors was this: Many people who love cruising don’t actually think of themselves as “cruise people.” Some are food and wine
lovers.
Some are hikers and wildlife enthusiasts.
Some are history buffs.
Some are busy professionals craving restorative, effortless travel.
Some dream of Antarctica or the Galápagos — but have absolutely no interest in a 5,000-passenger megaship experience. That distinction matters. Because successful travel planning isn’t really about “selling a cruise.” It’s about understanding someone deeply enough to match them with the right experience, pace, destination, and style of travel. That’s why I love river and expedition
cruising so much. I’ve watched clients stand on the Normandy beaches on Remembrance Day alongside Canadian peacekeepers who served in Bosnia, Afghanistan, and Somalia — some wearing their medals and peacekeeping uniforms as we observed the 11 a.m. moment of silence together. I’ve watched travellers see Antarctica for the first time and fall completely silent at the scale and beauty of it. I’ve watched exhausted professionals rediscover joy through the simple luxury of unpacking once and waking up somewhere new every day. That’s what meaningful travel can do. And it’s also why relationships
within this industry matter so much. Earlier this week, I took the train from Ottawa to Toronto for an evening at the beautiful Four Seasons Hotel Toronto with cruise partners, tourism boards, hotel brands, expedition companies, and travel industry colleagues from across Canada at the TravelPulse Canada awards. I was honoured to sit with the Lindblad Expeditions team as National Geographic-Lindblad Expeditions received the award for Best Small Ship Cruise Line — incredibly well deserved for a company that truly understands expedition travel, education, and meaningful
exploration. It was also wonderful to see AmaWaterways recognized with:
✨ Best River Cruise Line
✨ Best River Cruise Line – Culinary And to watch my friend Neil Dudley named River Cruise Sales Rep of the Year. ❤️ Other well-deserved winners included Tourism Australia, Rocky Mountaineer, G Adventures, Globus, and Four Seasons Hotels & Resorts — all companies that continue to create exceptional travel experiences in very different ways. You’ll actually see several of these award-winning partners featured in the travel offers and inspiration section of this week’s newsletter below, because one of the advantages of being deeply connected within this industry is understanding not just who wins awards — but why they do. Evenings like that are about far more than awards. They’re reminders that behind every extraordinary trip are real relationships:
the people who advocate for clients,
the cruise directors who create unforgettable onboard experiences,
the expedition leaders and
naturalists,
the executives shaping new itineraries,
the supplier partners who help advisors solve problems when things don’t go perfectly. Those relationships matter enormously to my clients. Because when I recommend a river cruise line, an expedition company, or a
destination, I’m not choosing from a brochure alone. I’m choosing based on:
ships I’ve personally toured,
rivers I’ve sailed,
expedition teams I’ve travelled with,
executives I’ve spoken with,
and years of firsthand experience helping clients find the right fit. Independent by design, Ottawa-based, globally recognized — but still deeply connected to an industry built around curiosity, storytelling, education, and helping people experience the world in meaningful ways. At the end of the day, luxury travel isn’t really
about luxury. It’s about return on life. And sometimes the greatest investment we ever make is finally deciding to put the Big Rocks in first. ❤️ 🌍 This Week’s 4 Travel CornersEach week, we bring you insights from four inspiring corners of the travel world—designed to spark ideas, fuel your wanderlust, and keep you in the loop on what’s possible next: River Cruise Corner – Explore the best of river cruising with itinerary highlights, ship spotlights, and insider tips. Adventure Travel Corner
– From safaris to polar expeditions, get inspired by journeys that push the boundaries of exploration. Wellness Travel Corner – Discover retreats, resorts, and experiences that help you relax, recharge, and reconnect. Come Travel With Me Corner – Join one of my upcoming hosted group trips and experience the world with fellow curious, like-minded travelers—crafted and guided by me. Where will your next
corner of the world be? Let’s find out together. 1. River Cruise Corner — Award-Winning River Cruises & Some of the Best AMA Offers I’ve Seen This Year ❤️One of the highlights of attending the River Cruise Corner: Award-Winning River Cruises & Some of the Best AMA Offers I’ve Seen This Year ❤️ It was wonderful this week to see AmaWaterways
recognized at the TravelPulse Canada awards with:
✨ Best River Cruise Line
✨ Best River Cruise Line – Culinary And I was especially happy to see my friend Neil Dudley named River Cruise Sales Rep of the Year. ❤️ Awards like these matter because they reflect what so many of my clients
experience firsthand onboard:
beautiful ships,
exceptional service,
wonderful food and wine,
immersive excursions,
and an experience that feels effortless from beginning to end. One of the things I often say is:
while the river is the same, the onboard experience can be very different. AmaWaterways continues to stand out for:
✨ included small-group excursions
✨ excellent wellness programming
✨ wonderful culinary experiences
✨ twin-balcony staterooms on many ships
✨ warm, genuinely caring service
✨ and an atmosphere that feels relaxed rather than overly formal And right now, they’ve combined several of their strongest offers into one limited-time Memorial Day promotion valid through May 27, 2026. Current offers include:
✨ Up to C$3,000 per stateroom savings on select 2026 and 2027 Europe and Colombia sailings
✨ Complimentary land packages with up to
C$3,249 in value on select itineraries
✨ Limited-time C$799 AirPlus economy airfare to Europe on eligible departures Some itineraries include wonderful pre- or post-cruise stays in places like:
❤️ Prague
❤️ Paris
❤️ Lake Lucerne
❤️ Zurich And if Colombia has been on your radar, there are some particularly fantastic offers right now. AmaWaterways is currently offering:
✨ Complimentary airfare from Toronto or Montreal on select Colombia departures
✨ Connector flights from other Canadian gateways for
approximately C$300/person
✨ Some departures also include complimentary land packages I personally can’t wait to experience Colombia with AmaWaterways this September. ❤️ From everything I’ve seen and heard so far, the Magdalena River looks incredibly special:
vibrant
culture,
music,
history,
colourful towns,
warm local connections,
and a completely different style of river cruise experience than Europe. It’s exciting to see river cruising expanding beyond the traditional European rivers into destinations that feel more immersive and unexpected. If you’ve been considering river cruising — whether it’s your first sailing or your fifth — this is one of the strongest combinations of promotions I’ve seen from AmaWaterways in quite some time. And as always, one of the biggest keys is
finding the right river, itinerary, ship, and pace for you. ❤️ Independent by design, Ottawa-based, globally recognized — Virtuoso Cruise Icon, top 1% worldwide. Focused on delivering true return on life. ❤️
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Email me [email protected] #RiverCruise #RiverCruising #LuxuryTravel #FoodieTravel #CruiseExpert #TravelAdvisor #ReturnOnLife 2. Adventure Travel — Why Lindblad Expeditions Continues to Stand Out ❤️🐧❄️One of the highlights of this week’s TravelPulse Canada awards evening was seeing National Geographic-Lindblad Expeditions recognized as Best Small Ship Cruise Line — a well-deserved honour for a company that truly understands expedition travel, education, and meaningful exploration. I was fortunate to sit with the Lindblad team during the evening, and honestly, the award felt incredibly fitting. Because expedition travel isn’t just about going somewhere remote. It’s about how you experience it. One of the biggest misconceptions I still hear is:
“Expedition cruising sounds too rough for me.” And years ago, that may have been true for some ships. But modern expedition cruising can look very different. Think:
✨ beautifully designed expedition ships
✨ exceptional cuisine
✨ expert naturalists, biologists, and historians onboard
✨ zodiac landings beside glaciers and penguins
✨ photographers helping you capture incredible moments
✨ and access to places most travellers only dream about Antarctica.
The Arctic.
Galápagos.
South Georgia.
The Norwegian fjords. The real luxury isn’t only the ship. It’s access.
Perspective.
Experience. And choosing the right expedition line matters enormously. That’s one of the reasons I’ve loved sharing some of my Antarctica moments recently — including a funny little “penguin traffic jam” video where everyone stopped to let a penguin casually wander past us like he owned the continent. ❤️ And honestly?
He did. One of the most powerful things about Antarctica is realizing very quickly that it’s their world, not ours. The wildlife isn’t staged.
The landscapes don’t feel real.
And there’s a humbling quality to expedition travel that stays with you long after you return home. That’s also why I love working with expedition companies like Lindblad Expeditions, who combine:
✨ education
✨ conservation
✨ science
✨ exploration
✨ and exceptional
guiding into experiences that feel transformational rather than simply touristic. Many of my expedition clients don’t think of themselves as “cruise people” at all. They’re often:
❤️ wildlife
lovers
❤️ hikers
❤️ photographers
❤️ history buffs
❤️ birders
❤️ lifelong learners
❤️ people fascinated by the natural world And expedition cruising gives them access to places that would otherwise be nearly impossible to experience safely or comfortably. One of the greatest joys of my work is helping people realize that adventure travel doesn’t have to mean sacrificing comfort — and that some of the most extraordinary places on earth are actually more accessible than they imagine. And sometimes? That adventure starts with simply stepping aside for a penguin. 🐧❄️ 3. Wellness Corner — Books, Curiosity & Thinking for Yourself Earlier this month, one of my favourite
wellness moments didn’t happen at a spa or on a beach somewhere in the world. It happened at the National Arts Centre in Ottawa listening to Fran Lebowitz. I had the opportunity to hear Alan Neal of CBC’s All in a Day interview Fran before meeting the great dame
herself afterwards, having my book signed, and even asking her opinion on a couple of matters. What struck me most wasn’t just her legendary wit — though she’s absolutely the kind of person who can make an entire theatre laugh with a single sentence and then make you think about it for the rest of the night. What stayed with me was her fierce defence of books, history, curiosity, and independent thought. In a world increasingly dominated by endless scrolling, AI conversations, quick takes, and surface-level opinions, Fran spoke passionately about the importance of reading deeply, understanding history, and actually thinking for yourself. She lamented how many people no longer truly know history — or worse, no longer care to learn it. Oddly enough, it felt deeply relevant to wellness. Because true wellness isn’t just massages and green juice.
It’s intellectual wellness.
Emotional wellness.
Cultural wellness.
Remaining curious.
Remaining engaged.
Continuing to learn.
Protecting your ability to think critically and independently. And in classic Fran fashion, the evening also included hilarious observations about why plumbers may ultimately matter more than AI (“even the Artemis capsule had plumbing problems”), surprise at overhearing that Canadians currently aren’t serving bourbon in some places, and reflections on Canada-U.S. relations. The entire night was a reminder that some of the healthiest things we can do for ourselves are to read more, think more deeply, travel more thoughtfully, and spend time around people who challenge us intellectually. A very good night in Ottawa. ✨📚 4. 🌟 Travel With Sheila: Let’s reserve your special holiday, and come travel with me. It'd be my pleasure to work
with you to secure your spot, and create unforgettable memories together. Warmly,
Sheila
Lush Life Travel | Virtuoso Cruise Icon | AmaWaterways Elite Advisor⚓ ✨ Four Directions of Travel InspirationEach edition of our newsletter brings you four curated travel insights to spark your wanderlust and keep you in the know. Here’s what to expect: In the Spotlight - From client journeys to industry features, see how Lush Life Travel is creating memorable adventures—and making headlines along the way. Virtuoso Travel Inspiration –
Handpicked features from Virtuoso Life, Virtuoso Traveler, or Virtuoso Insight—ideas that transport you. Elevate Your Stay – A weekly look at standout hotels from our preferred partner network, plus the VIP perks you receive when booking with Lush Life Travel. Exclusive Offers – Special promotions and insider access available only through Lush Life Travel, a proud affiliate of Direct Travel and top Virtuoso producer. This section is your one-stop compass for ideas, upgrades, and exclusive opportunities—all designed to help you live your lushest travel life. 5. Client Spotlight: From
First River Cruise… to Booking the Next One Before Returning Home One of the things I love most about river
cruising is how often a first sailing turns into a second… before clients have even unpacked. Peter and his wife were referred to me directly by AmaWaterways when they began researching a Danube river cruise. Like many travellers, they wanted guidance on the differences between ships, cabins, itineraries, air options, and what truly makes one
river cruise experience different from another. After helping them plan their journey through Vienna, Budapest, and the Danube, they returned home already excited about where to sail next — and we’ve now booked their next AmaWaterways river cruise for 2027 as well. As many of you saw from my recent posts from the River Cruise Expo in Europe, I spend a great deal of time onboard these ships personally — walking the cabins, comparing layouts, experiencing the food, and meeting with cruise line executives and cruise managers directly — so I can match clients to the right experience, not just the most advertised one. Here’s what Peter shared after returning home: “What a pleasure to deal with Sheila. She is so knowledgeable, pleasant and very responsive. We did not know Sheila but AMA Waterways referred her when we contacted AMA about booking a river cruise on the Danube. Sheila
did a fantastic job in explaining every detail and arranging everything for us. Since returning the other week, we have booked another AMA River cruise with Sheila for next year. She was able to secure an amazing deal for us. Highly recommend Sheila!”
— Provo Pete, travelled April 2026
There’s nothing better than
helping clients fall in love with river cruising — and then helping them decide which river to explore next. ❤️
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